Ok Ladies! So the day which you
have been dreading for weeks has finally arrived. All of your BFFs are gushing
over their valentine’s date and you are sulking behind the close doors of your
room. Right? Well if the answer is yes than stop that sulking right NOW!
I know I know, it’s wonderful to
have someone to shower you with gifts, flowers, romantic dinner. I personally
know a lot of girls who make it their mission to find the date solely for the
Valentine’s Eve and after the date they don’t even bother to call him. These
girls don’t have loose morals, neither they are conniving bitches, they are
just girls who don’t want to be alone on the day when literally everyone is strolling
down the street, hand-in-hand, they just want to be the part of that happy-couple
crowed, they don’t want to be left out. I am no one to judge if they are right
or wrong in doing so. But I can speak for myself. I would never, ever want to
be involved with someone, solely for the sake of a Valentine’s date. That is
stooping too low for me but that’s only my point of view and you have every
right to disagree with me.
I am a kind of girl who just can’t
pretend that 14 Feb is just another Friday but I am also a girl who can’t spent
a day with relatively stranger and the next day would feel “What heck I was
thinking?”. So I have worked out the third way to celebrate Valentine’s Day. It’s
a day of love and I want to feel loved. At the moment I am blissfully single
and still I can think of thousand ways to make myself feel loved without even
having a date. So if you are single too, then take clues from here and have a
fabulous Valentine’s Day!!
Stay away from FB, Twitter: It’s
the best way to stay away from all the mushy couples who are all set to post
every move of their day on FB and Twitter with a sole purpose of flaunting
their fabulous gifts and date on your face. Who needs to know if he has gifted
you a g-string? You are definitely not going to post your picture wearing it
later so what’s the point of twitting about it now? Puke!
Join a fun and fabulous fitness class
for a day: To free yourself from any negativity, blues or sadness, hit the gym
today! You can go to any good gym of your area and pay the daily charge. Attend
a hip-hop, zumba or bollywood-hollywood dance class. Take my words, you will
feel uh-mazing at the end of it.
Spend some money: Spend your
money on yourself. Go to shopping and buy that really expensive perfume which
you have been coveting for so long.
Trip to spa/beauty salon: Go for
some luxurious massage at your nearby spa or if you are not a fan of it then
gift yourself a professional mani-pedi. Beautifully painted nails can make
anything better.
Rent a good movie or box-set:
Rent a good movie or box-set of your favourite sitcom. This is sure to make
your day much more bearable.
Have single girls night-in:
Invite all of your single girlfriends at your place. Pop the bottle of bubbly,
order take-away, wear your PJs, watch that movie or box-set you rented and
raise toast to your singleness.
OR
Alternative: If you don’t have
any single friend then take a long bath, light some scented candles, put on a
really good lip balm, order take away, put on the DVD and jump on the sofa. You
are in for a treat!
All the single ladies out there
make yourself feel loved and worthy and have a really fabulous Valentine’s Day!
Swati xxx
